Realistically, everyone online is constantly complaining about the lack of friends, the lack of community, and so on. Meanwhile, I live in a high rise in SF and have no shortage of any of these.
People borrow spoons of yogurt, tools, devices; share parenting, food, and home advice; and there's a bunch who play board games and the like.
My friends are nearby. We go to the gym together, play basketball together, go to the same kids' birthday parties.
This is very obviously a "smell shit everywhere you go" situation.
> This is very obviously a "smell shit everywhere you go" situation.
I don't know man, lots of big cities smell of shit so to speak. Had been in 3 big cities I had to move to a small "3rd world" beach town to stop smelling shit. Life (people) is great here.
Me I don't care about nice looking sidewalks slick looking buildings when everyone is either miserable or closed off or simply sizing you up and discarding you because they don't have nothing more to gain from you than "simply" friendship.
People borrow spoons of yogurt, tools, devices; share parenting, food, and home advice; and there's a bunch who play board games and the like.
My friends are nearby. We go to the gym together, play basketball together, go to the same kids' birthday parties.
This is very obviously a "smell shit everywhere you go" situation.